Here we are speaking to someone who was manipulated and controlled for just wanting to be married and have a family and sadly this can open up the door to narcissist types exploiting your weak points. Here you will see how important it was for her to be married over peer pressure or some deep seeded beliefs on an idea of how life should be, notice how she had seen some significant red flags but she also turned a blind eye because the idea of being married was more important! basically the statis mattered more than the who. I have seen many women make this mistake over the years in my work and we can bring a lot of troubles on ourselves as a result of all my friends are married. Please ladies don't give into peer pressure if it isn't right it just isn't right. Don't overlook the red flags just to get what you want. Your life and time matter,don't waste it. on a lighter note she has gotten a beautiful baby from all this. Everything will work out for her moving forward but she will need to be more mindful of her why, and not let her ego take the wheel when making choices in the future. I did get a terrible vibe from the mother in law who is ttruly the root of her son's issues and the marriage ending like this